How fatal can divorce be?

 

Divorce which simply means the dissolution of marriage by a court or other competent body.

Marriage is enjoyable but divorce is painful, pitiable and regrettable.

In African, divorce is in minimal cases compare to the Western world where divorce is optimal.

Sometimes I have seen divorce where two divorced couples now

hide around to have sex with each other because they don't want there current partner to be aware of their past relationships still looking as if it will work.

I read of a case where two couples attending court proceedings for the annulment of their marriage, while the case is still in court the wife fell pregnant for the same husband she was planning to divorce. The judge has to cancel the divorce case, because it seems the both couples are not just serious with their divorce proceedings. Like seriously?? How can you guys be seeking for divorce and still go behind our back and be having sex.

Ok,let's talk how fatal  can divorce be, what effect does it have on the kids? What psychological effect will they suffer??

I will say a few things,I will really love to hear from you..

- Bridge of love between the children and the parents

No matter how wealthy the both parents are, divorce tends to affect the mental state of their children,I have seen a lady complaining bitterly on how bad her father is, and how he never wish to marry the type of man like her father, the pain of seeing your both parents living separately is unbearable. Sometimes you will just act cool just to get along with both of them.

I heard recently that Bill Gates is pulling out from his 25yrs marriage, I can't imagine how painful it is for the children to accept the facts that their both parents are no more together. Beyond our personal interest let's also look for the interest of others. You know I always tell people that marriage can still work out if only the couples can re-ignite what makes them fell in love for the first time. Even if you both agreed to always be available for the children,I tell you the truth the first love is the strong bond for a healthy family.

Ok, let me just stop here for now. Tell me how fatal can divorce be?